Ngairini | Counselling

Introduction

Kia ora, Haere mai,

I am a counsellor in New Zealand.  I provide compassionate, professional, and holistic counselling for those needing it. My approach is described as nurturing, empowering, and culturally attuned.   
I work with my assistance/service dog Stanley who is totally peaceful and safe with children and all humans. He provides great comfort for children and all ages (if you like dogs). He is clean, vaccinated, healthy (& non-smelling). He is open for pats during the session if in person. If you are allergic, or scared or just don't like dogs, I can put him in another room while the session is on, put him on the lead, or we can do online on Google Meet. I have a commitment to my wellbeing also, do professional development, supervision & follow standard ethical guidelines for counsellors (e.g. Therapy Counsellors & NZAC). I have around 750 hours logged so far and increasing. My sessions are generally one hour however this can be negotiable, as in an hour and a half or two hours at a time if needed. It is a comfortable, clean, private & safe space. You will have confidentiality (informed consent). I am always aware of ethical situations and will follow them to the letter.

Mihi aroha,

Kindest regards,

Ngairini.

Please see below some reviews I have received:

"Beautiful and warm lady, Ngairini. Me and my children were very comfortable and felt welcomed and not udged; Stanley was very good support." Luana, Poriria.

"Ngairini has been an absolute Godsend for my daughter and myself. We are both finding the sessions helpful and her experience in addressing the concerns is phenomenal :) "Tania, Tawa.

 "Ngairini was such a pleasure and a Godsend in helping my teenage sons. She has such a lovely & helpful manner and is easy to open up to. She is super skilled in techniques to implement in support of her sessions and offers such practical advice. I would highly recommend Ngairini." Gemma. N. Miramar.

I've had four sessions and I'm becoming myself again. It's been really nice to have someone to speak to and give me advice. I have learnt a lot to keep myself happy and have clearer thoughts. Its been really helpful."Brayden, Waiunomata.

"Harrison (11), Mark and I built a genuine rapport with Ngairini O'Kell from our first meeting with her. She also sets out boundaries in a kind manner. Harrison and I met her and her companion dog. She broke the ice by talking about surfing, Harrisons favourite topic. He had been wary and indeed reluctant to go to counselling for a number of years. Even on the way there, he was dubious. However they soon started chatting like old friends. I returned an hour later to a son who was very comfortable and didn't want to leave Ngairini's companion dog. Son was happy to return to counselling the following week with Mark. Son enjoyed his sessions and would like to finish some in the future. This is a positive result for us'. 
Megan White, Ngaio.

"Ngairini provided a space for me to talk through how I'm feeling with no judgement and allowed me to process my thoughts in real time. A lovely person to converse with. I rediscovered writing as a powerful outlet which I take forward into my life after my sessions with Ngairini." -Mira. G. BROOKLYN. NZ

"Just wanted to say thanks for the session earlier. I feel very encouraged and hopeful.'Kyra, Tawa.
'Thank you for todays session. It was helpful- Ngairini is a great counsellor who listens w empathy to understand complex situations. She expertly uses her own experiences in life to create an "I've been there too" connection with the children that gives them the understanding & empowerment to navigate the tough times." F.P. Island Bay.' 

"We found the experience really useful. You were so welcoming and a great sounding board for Scott. Stanley is a wonderful addition to the environment.
Thanks again". Nikki. Brooklyn.

'My daughter came to see Ngairini at crisis point. It was really helpful to have an outsider of the family to work through that with. It was very beneficial at that point of time to give her new perspectives to reflect on. Thank you Ngairini.' Katherine. Berhampore.

'My son was super relaxed after he saw Ngairini. He felt heard and listened to. Thanks!' Frances. Miramar.

"It was nice to talk with someone and get some clarity on my thoughts and feel more empowered in my decision making. I feel less confusion and more confident going forward. You have given me strategies and strength to deal with anything that may come up in the future. I feel more positive, less bogged down, with more energy now. I am more happy. I am feeling good in myself. Thank you so much. It was/is a pleasure to know you." Emily, Miramar. 

"I was able to offload and clarify my thoughts, feelings and proesses going on in my head and heart. I found my assertiveness and communication skils to work with people and issues in my life whereas before they were all beneath the surface as resentments, causing me depression, anxiety and relationship blocks. Thanks Ngairini for encouraging me to be proactive in my life choices and friendships as I have had positive outcomes and now feel I know myself better and can handle life more overall."M.G.Brooklyn.

"When my 9 year old son leaves counselling with Ngairini he is more carefree and relaxed. It really takes a load off. He has opened up to me more and most importantly, the issues that brought us to counselling have stopped so it has been really useful. It has been a huge improvement, he is more in touch with his emotions, also better behaved and more respectful." Fran. Berhampmore.

"Ngairini has been a strong support during 2024 for myself. She has helped me work through many issues. I really don't know if I would be able to cope at all if I hadn't come to her. I am back to work, exercising & finding enjoyment in things in life whereas before I was in a dark hole. Mihi nui Ngairini.' Mel. Newtown.

"Ngairini was helpful in untangling & working through our relationship issues. We appreciate the work & are navigating our way forward. She brought many things to light that we hadn't thought of & was a great support! Many thanks, C&T, Manly. Auckland NZ.

"We came to counseling as a last ditch effort to save the relationship, to get clarity, heal our stuff & get a life that is more like what we used to have. Ngairini was instrumental in this. We are so grateful for your time & work with us! S&L, New.Plymouth. N.Z.

"Ngairini was thorough in her approach to working with my boy who was facing bullying, grief, loss & change issues. She was compassionate & connected with him in a way he could relate to. Thanks Ngairini." E.S. Silverdale, N.Z. 

"I came to Ngairini to help find my voice & strength again after a separation & some grief. She has helped me find the strength to be independent again & stand up. She was patient, caring & had a sense of humour. Mihi, Ngairini" M.M. Porirua.

"I was new to the country & filled with anxiety. I now have a home, a job & life is moving forward. Ngairini gave me tools to use for my anxiety & some strategies to use in employment & knowledge of how to handle myself. I am very grateful." Amy, Auckland South.

"You have been realy helpful so thank you so much for your support for my children, they are doing really well now!' Suzie, Omaha.

'Thank you for the initial session with Peta.  She came away from her time with you feeling very positive and confident that she would like to do further sessions with you' C&N, Takapuna.

'Our 14 yr old daughter came to Ngairini. We have noticed some changes after counselling with her. The strategies helped her, as did helping talk her through things was helpful, her worries and anxieties have fallen away & as a result of the times with Ngairini she has figured out how to manage those. Thank you very much. It was really good for Ellie. We have seen some real shifts in her. She is in a better place now.'